Rekindle your relationship from the comfort of your home
Every couple has a door between them.
How open is yours?
Online communication solutions for relationship breakthroughs
the excitement you felt when you were first getting to know each other?
The hopes and dreams you had for joining your lives together. The visions of a happy future together, hearing each other’s loving voices as you murmured good night and good morning every day, lighting up at the glimpse of your partner’s smiling face across the room, the warm comfort of each other’s scent as years turned into decades of closeness, the loving embrace and familiar touch strengthening your intimacy through good times and bad...
But now things have changed… This is not the way you ever wanted to feel
After years of working hard side by side on careers and family, now you’re feeling lonely and disconnected. You thought you were building a life together, and it’s scary to feel you’ve become strangers living separate lives in the same house.
You don’t know how to talk about important issues and different opinions. You dread every conversation.
And you’ve really tried. You want to do the work if it will help. You’ve wanted advice from friends, books, workshops, maybe even therapy. Perhaps you’ve learned some good stuff, but it didn’t stick and changes haven’t lasted.
In the pit of your stomach you’re scared - you don’t want to break up your family and end up alone.
You can rekindle your relationship
Change is possible - it's not too late
About Dr. Sarah
And The Couples Communication Institute
From the moment your relationship with your partner began you imagined joyfully building your life with your best friend, laughing over inside jokes at dinnertime before an evening of intimacy, and long happy days of just being together.
But what happens when the years go by and instead of getting closer you disconnect, disengage, and you feel helpless because you just don’t know how to rekindle your relationship?
I understand how that feels.
Nobody should have to feel stuck and scared, not knowing how to even communicate with each other. You want to know the path forward to the closeness and intimacy.
I want to help you rekindle your relationship. I’m Dr. Sarah Rattray, the Founder and CEO of the Couples Communication Institute. I’ve spent the last thirty years teaching hundreds of couples simple and effective communication tools that empower them to rekindle their relationship, and the Couples Communication Institute can help you, too.
You’re in the right place.
Providing online communication solutions for relationship breakthroughs
We teach you the tools and strategies to move out of your current struggles
Together we create the clarity and connection to thrive happily together
You bring your mutual support and energy to your missions in life, to give to your families, communities, careers... the world
You're ready to rekindle your relationship!
You know how you want to feel - you know the way you always wanted your relationship to be. Feeling close and connected, even after the whirlwind of busy years, like you’re living with your best friend again.
To be living and dreaming united on the same path, feeling safe communicating with each other in effective, clear, loving, healthy ways. Imagine the confidence of knowing you can handle any stressor together without coming apart, that you can talk through any subject without fear of fighting.
Create the lasting closeness and intimate connection you wish to have, with the clear, loving communication skills you need
to rekindle your relationship.
Deep-Dive self-guided courses
Couples Communication Made Easy
to get the two of you on track fast
Relationship Mastery program
Our twelve week program for motivated couples, with the unique Connection Spark Method to help you create lasting change... coming soon
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Sarah offers her special blend of sincere empathy and common sense guidance from a place of compassion borne of many years of professional and life experience. With her gentle inquiries and intelligent suggestions she's helped me figure out for myself what I'm needing. Sarah communicates with warmth and genuine caring and with her often playful humor I come away feeling empowered and ready to be my best self.
Community Organizer & Yoga Instructor
Sarah has become one of my most trusted advisors and confidants. She speaks with a directness and a clarity that is both compassionate and truthful. It's refreshing. Sarah has been a rock of sound advice. My own insights are reflected back towards me so I am able to both see and access my own innate wisdom. Her capacity for unlocking my own answers within myself is uncanny.
Sarah has become an extraordinary mentor in my life. I consider her a confidant, and she gives welcomed advice on the complexities that are marriage/relationships, childrearing, and complete health in mind and body whenever I need help. Sarah is a one of a kind human being. My life has been enriched having known her all of these years, I look forward to the future and would encourage anyone to seek her out for help in any mind, body or health issue someone may be having.